But then, how bad was her father? The people/relatives in Oak Harbor said it was BAD. David, Joan’s brother, was in Mississippi where he works as a [computer] contractor. His wife, Linda, was in Seattle, and talking to Joan on the phone, while on top of a ladder, painting. She said, “I am coming down this ladder and getting into the car and driving to Oak to Harbor to access the situation!"
When she called back, she said he was much better in good spirits and greeting her with a smile and “How are you?” “How are YOU?” she asked, “Oh, I’m fine!”
We decided we could wait until we got back from the Ellensburg musical activity. We continued packing Thursday and planned to leave Idaho on Friday.
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Saturday. We talked with Andy and Clayton and they were fine with us leaving right away; Andy said it would actually be better since the awards ceremony would be awkward no matter what. Because Clayton was just a ninth grader and competing against even seniors, and also an older classmate who had won 2nd last year, it would be awkward if he won. It would be awkward also if he got second, especially if the classmate didn’t. And it would be awkward for him, after waiting all day, if he didn’t win at all. All that to say, it was fine to go.
There were 22 tubas competing and we could hear them playing from the hall: they were so good. We went in to hear Clayton play; he was good too, but as a freshman? Against 22 older players at a state competition?
We left right away, stopping at the Renton condo to get clothes to spend the night at the Whidbey Navy Station in Oak Harbor. Joan’s brother was stuck at the Dallas airport and couldn’t get out.
When we arrived, everyone was there (stepbrother Dennis and stepsister Darlene and spouses. They live in Oak Harbor and have continued to visit and care for Dick as they did when their mother Betty was alive.) Linda was there too. He was looking fine and in good spirits. We stayed two nights and enjoyed visiting with everyone as he got better and better.
We got a text from Calyton, 3 words: "I WONNNNNNNNN!" We could hardly believe it, but it was true. We listened to the tape again that we had taken of his playing and heard how good it really it was.
We spent two nights in Oak Harbor, then returned to Renton to continue tasks, as Joan's dad was better. We planned to return the next day.

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